Thursday, August 29, 2013

Asking For Advice

         We all do it. Whether we're at a crossroads in our lives, or undecided about something. You might go to a close friend, counselor, or family member to get their insight or opinion. 
         Some people might feel like they don't need help, or they think asking for advice is damaging to their pride. There is a big difference between asking someone for their advice, and going to someone for help. Someone's advice is just that, THEIR advice. 
          There is nothing wrong with wanting someone's insight other than your own. Sometimes when we ask for advice, you can choose to take it, but no one says you HAVE to. For example, when you're torn between two different things, if someone's advice is to do one thing, maybe that's when you're able to realize you really want to do the other thing. Just because you didn't take that persons advice, it was still beneficial to you. 
          As humans, we have feelings, and a billion decisions to make in life. And even though it is 100% natural and normal to go to someone for their advice or opinion on something, you know yourself better than anyone. Sometimes we subconsciously know what we want,  but we just need someone else to reveal it. 


Prayers&Positivity 
Becka

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